I'm Fat, But That Doesn't Mean I Should Have To Lower My Dating Standards
Let's be honest. Online dating sucks for everyone. Browsing and scrolling through sexual posts and a bunch of erotic pictures can make us sick. Is this a real standard of online dating? Is a sexuality exposed like this the only way to meet up a nice guy online?
Our dating standards are created by many things: the place we had been born, our material status, beliefs, religion, culture and what's so ever.
Apart from all this, here come to body shape where you can either be slim or fat.
Slim people always have more rights in choosing a partner and what's more, have a right to tell fat people how to date. Many people feel that bigger girls should relegate themselves instead of developing high expectations of relationship towards others.
In this concept, BBWs are expected to give up all choice in terms of the people they love, meet, date, marry and befriend just because of those extra curves on hips and stomach.
There is a toxic cultural belief that fat women should be grateful for any attention they get especially when it comes to sexual attention. This belief can be described in one sentence "You have no words because you are fat".
This can lead chubby girls to companionship with any guy who is slightly interested just to get laid. Sex is amazing and very needed in any kind of way but XL ladies shouldn't have to settle for just sex when they want more because they feel it's all they're going to get (because of those extra rolls on hips). BBWs should learn how to deny and trick guy all over.
The joy of picking and choosing partners -- as well as sexual and any other intimate situations -- should be something every woman, fat or otherwise, should feel free to take part in without anyone else advice and border.
There should be no undue influence from people who have decided fat women are only begging for an attention from opposite gender.
Unfortunately social media and Hollywood is creating a different image of this. Naturally, none of them is as in love with equally charming fat women with skinny, sexy chicks. Fat women are considered burdens, embarrassing, gross, disgusting, lazy and ugly.
BBW ladies need to learn that worth as a human being is not equivalent to the number of messages from Tinder or number of guys who want to meet up for a one night stand.
Self-worth is neither founded in size and clothing label.
Self-worth is being found in who you really are, who and what you like and how you are open minded to speak about it in front of others!
Then, coming back to the main question: Shall fat girls lower their dating expectations just because they are fat? The answer is simple enough…